Here’s My 2Cents Worth Opinion On This Never-Ending Conflict Between Sharon Cuneta And KC Concepcion
As much as possible I don’t like opining on the drama that seems to come up in the surface between mother and daughter, Sharon and KC. The same conflicted mother and daughter relationship that seems to regurgitate every 6 months, 1 or 2-3 years. I don’t know, I can’t even keep track of it anymore and for a showbiz blogger, that’s saying something. But like I said, when it comes to family drama I try my darn best not to engage because I or You can say all we want but at the end of their feuding/tampuhan period, they’ll have a truce and then all of a sudden the public is at fault for not minding their own business when it’s THEM who keeps putting their shit out online for all the public to consume, pick apart, and judge on and off social media and whenever Fashion Pulis blogs all about the instances Sharon and KC are shading each other through Instagram posts and comments to their followers. But of course we are just going to pretend they’re not doing that to each other, RIGHT??? Yes, we definitely should mind our own business but take half of the responsibility yourselves by not airing your [dirty] laundry so publicly every chance you get. C’MON NOW!
I really really really did not want to do this because I’m sure some would think it hypocritical of me or that it is none of my/our business(it truly isn’t so please take note of that acknowledgement) but, humor me. Let’s indulge and maybe we can crack whatever it is that Sharon and KC can’t seem to recognize themselves. This is just my observation personally, of why they just can’t resolve whatever drama they have going on. Let me reiterate that I like them both and with no judgement whatsoever, they can do whatever the hell they want and it would not affect me or my life in any way shape or form so it’s basically, You Do You, in the most non-judgmental supportive hoorah whatchamacallit!
Anyhoooo… still with me?
I’m not a professional. I don’t have the Psychology degree to back me up but perhaps consider an outsider’s perspective for a moment, if you please. Being on this earth for 46 years and having life experiences like everyone else, albeit not as priviliged as Sharon and KC, I’d like to think I might have learned a thing or two. In any event, this is just my theory and personal opinion. I think the reason Sharon and KC just can’t see eye to eye hence we are subjected to their complicated mother-relationship drama publicly every 2-3 years is because THEY ARE SO ALIKE! They probably don’t even recognize it at all. They are so determined to point out, stealthily throwing in other people they love into the mix to try to poke at one another’s Achilles’ heel, what they think is wrong about the other person that they don’t see it. Perhaps they actually do see each other’s bullshit but they’re in denial and that’s why they’re here right now, AGAIN!
I mean, PICK ONE: lifestyle, their affinity for the finer things in life(and the need to humble-brag 😉), past-present-future relationships, dealing with the business they’re in, dealing with failures, coping mechanisms, hopes, wishes, dreams, the way they talk, their self-awareness, health and physical aspects, need for validation, fears, successes, accomplishments, insecurities, maturity, and INDEPENDENCE!
What one dislikes about the other in any of the aforementioned above is exactly or most probably what they don’t like about themselves but it’s hard to accept that important truth therefore their energy is constantly at odds. They’re not dealing with the main issue internally or at least with a professional, first and foremost. The daughter is screaming for validation of her independence while the mother is screaming for her validation as a mother. Their constant NEED to be loved, understood, and cling onto each other. As audience we are constantly reminded whenever they have a tampuhan of their feelings — “You don’t understand what I went through while raising you by myself” VS “You don’t understand how I feel as the daughter of a broken family.” One is not happy with what she sees about the other or what they’re respectively fighting for because in all actuality it’s EXACTLY the same issue one doesn’t like about herself and is afraid to face it. That is HARD to acknowledge and accept about oneself. It is pretty much like looking at a mirror with these two in more ways than one! 🤔 Until they completely and honestly accept that about each other I don’t think we’ll ever see an end to this drama. Not even when KC gets married and have her own children(if she decides to anyway). I have no doubt in my mind that they love each other with every fiber of their being and would do EVERYTHING to protect each other come hell or high water BUT, they both need to accept and acknowledge their MAIN problem. That would be the first step.
Are they truly, utterly, and genuinely happy about who they are or what their supposed authentic persona they try to project for all of us to see and articulately conveyed in articles or their social media post captions? 🤔 They can talk, write long captions, and claim all they want what this and that is about themselves in an attempt to hide or ignore the REAL issue. The core of their never-ending conflict lies WITHIN. Unless they resolve that for themselves individually first and hopefully together at some point, they’ll be back at this bullshit next year and sadly, in the future. It would be really freaking nice if they finally do it PRIVATELY though.
If they don’t then they’ll have to face the facts and responsibility for being social media/bloggers/tabloid’s fodder in between their truces. Being huge celebrities, rich, and famous doesn’t excuse them from the consequences of what THEY both share to the public no matter how glamorous and classy they present it to their followers.
If I’m wrong, GREAT!!! I have no problem saying so. Let me know in 3 or 6 months or in a year or 2. 🤷♀️ Thank you for reading and if you’re screaming at me through your monitor to mind my own business, I KNOW! 🙅♀️🙆♀️💆♀️
Nailed it. Sana they make peace sa kung anuman ang totoong problema nila. Kapagod na ring na lagi silang nag-aaway at nag-paparinigan.
You’re not wrong.
Ano ba talaga ang problema nilang mag-ina? Away bati away bati.